Take out a large handful of dried gondre (~50 grams). Place them in a large bowl. Fill the bowl up with cold water. Let the gondre soak overnight (or at least 4 hours) in the bowl before proceeding to next step.
Next day, drain the water and thoroughly rinse the gondre under running water 2-3x. Then place the gondre into a pot and fill it with water again - just enough to submerge the leaves. Bring the pot up to a boil. Once the water is boiling, reduce the heat to a low. Place a lid on and let it gently simmer for 30 minutes.
After 30 minutes, carefully drain the water. Then give the boiled gondre a wash under cold water (2-3 rinses). Now, place the gondre in a strainer. Then use your hands to thoroughly squeeze the water out of the leaves.
After the water has been squeezed out, use your hands to unravel the gondre bundle. If you find any hard or wooden stems... throw them out.
Next, we'll season the leaves with: Soup Soy Sauce (1 teaspoon!), Minced Garlic (1 teaspoon!), Fish Sauce (1 teaspoon!), Sesame Oil (1 teaspoon!), Perilla Oil (1 teaspoon!) Sesame Seeds (few shakes). Use your hands to evenly mix the seasoning into the leaves.
Take out a frying pan. Place on a low-heat. Once its hot, add-on the seasoned gondre leaves. Stir-fry it around for 1-2 minutes. Then add in a few splashes of water - this will create steam in the pan which will open up the leaves. Stir-fry for 30 more seconds. Add in a splash of more water if needed. Then take off heat.